June 29, 2025

What do YOU do first thing in the morning?

I do my 8 min long laugh hiit routine!

I start my timer and then lay around laughing as hard as I can.

If I gotta be quiet I put a pillow over my face to mute myself.

That’s my daily morning workout!

I’ve been doing that for over a year without one day off.

When I was traveling I did it too, no shame, don’t care about being stared at.

The best thing with choosing myself as my one and only life partner that I know I’ll have around until I die is:

I know how to make myself happy, I don’t need someone else to do it for me.

I don’t have to feel unappreciated, I take care of my needs and wishes, I provide for my own joy.

I KNOW I have my full attention and the emotional capacity to show up for myself, to support and care for my wellbeing.

That’s a lot to put into another human who’s got their own life to live out!

Married couples hate getting relationship advice from singles, and for me, it’s just tedious to listen to the same slogan “you’ll find the one!” from people who don’t understand the amazing feeling of being married to one self.

Hence, I’ll share my SOLO life advice to you here who DO WANT TO LIVE to LOVE yourself first:

Remember to nurture your self love, don’t take it for granted you’ll just feel great every moment.

Enjoy not caring about what potential love partners might think or expect of you, there’s nothing to impress or assure but yourself.

THRIVE in n working your business without that guilt trip of “ you don’t have time/you don’t prioritize us” routine that IS to be with someone else.

When you FIRST MEET, anyone will be blinded by physical attraction and promises about no pressure no demands…it is not true.

If you love to do what you love without having to tell someone about your daily routine and want to be free to just DO your things without permission “can I be gone for days” then you know SOLO is BLISS for self expansion!

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